TMI Tuesday #198

TMI Tuesday #198 - Relationships


1. Family is _Essential and I could not dream of living without my parents and sisters. My mom always told us that we were the best gift they could have ever given us. We didn't believe that back in the day, but now, it rings true.

2. Friends are _people who will tell you an idea is stupid and then support you anyway. They are people that you can bitch to and it's ok.____.

3. Exes are good _for stories? I only really have one ex that matters and we are still friends.

4. Strangers _all have stories. Everyone is someone's daughter or sister or mother and I try not to yell at older people even when they do things that piss me off____.

5. Relationships _suck___ when _you are the only one working at it.

Bonus: Tell us about your first love: My first love was someone that I grew up with in the neighborhood. His name is Matt. *sigh* He is 3 years older then I am. Tall, skinny and he was like "everything" to me at the time. I fought for him hard core. I decided that I wanted him and that was that. I didn't stop until he asked me to Prom.... a week before. He was my first. Get this line I used to get him to sleep with me... We were in FL with his family for a vacation and we would stay up late and then go to the beach in the days. Well, I couldn't sleep and I went down and said to him, "I can't sleep. Do you have anything to put me to sleep?" Yeah. That line. IT totally worked though!!!
Anyway.. so our love affair was like a year long or something. maybe not even that long. He went to college and I was still in HS. I had glasses and braces and well, he was in college. He didn't want to be seen with me. He went away and I never visited him once b/c he didn't let me or really didn't want me. His grandfather passed away and he was home for the funeral and such and said he'd call. He never called. So that was that. He broke up with me by never talking to me again.
We used to hang out and play all the time growing up. It took me three years to be able to talk to him again. We were friends again and then he went and cheated with the next door neighbor who is way older and now they are married. Fun!