TMI Tuesday

1. Describe the perfect date for YOURSELF... what you would enjoy most.
I don't think that I have been on a date in the actual terms of it. Meeting someone and talking on the phone and then agreeing to meet up for a date. I have had wonderful "date like" dinners with both the ex, but mostly with Mr. Gore.

I would suppose a perfect date for me would be some type of outdoor activity. Say hiking, swimming or kayaking and then a lunch wherever we are. Lunch doesn't have to be anything special. It can just be some sub's from the local Italian place. Then maybe go home and shower and then meet up for dinner and drinks. If there are sparks and if I thought I liked him and vice versa, I'd say, go back to his place or mine to watch a movie and continue with the drinks.


2. Do you lean more toward being submissive or dominant?
Right now, I would say submissive. I haven't really had a whole lost of sexual experience. I do really enjoy having the control and I think if Al and I could figure out me on top better, then i would. I would taunt and tease until he begged for it.

I do enjoy that being done to me as well. Someone just fucking the shit out of me and me not having to worry about anything except enjoying the pleasure. That's for right now. Things will change in the future I'm sure.



3. What do you usually wear to bed?
Nothing. I don't like sleeping with clothes on b/c I hate how pants or shorts will ride up and my shirt will be over my head anyway. Even in the cold cold winter, it's nothing.

4. Have you ever seen a counselor?
I did briefly when I left the ex. Actually right before I left him. I had to. I needed help getting my thoughts together. I think that it was working and I did like her, but I just couldn't keep spending $25 every week.

5. Lights on or off?
Well I would say both. Mostly off and with the light of something casting interesting shadows across our bodies. With Mr. Gore it's the light of his computer monitor b/c we watch movies all the time.

I love sex in the daylight thought. Meaning windows open, not like outside. Although, I wouldn't mind doing it outside. Mr. Gore and I had sex outside the other weekend. Twice. Once in the day light in the hot hot sun. We worked up so much sweat that it was insane, but so hot. Then we had sex outside at night with the stars and the moonlight. This I didn't like as much b/c I was cold. I can't be cold during sex.


Bonus (as in optional): Bonus: Have you or a partner ever faked an orgasm?
I have no idea about a partner. For me.. ummm.. yeah. I hate to admit it to Mr. Gore and I won't b/c the sex with him is spectacular and I rarely ever find the need to fake it. Ok, hell, I'm totally lying now. Sex alone does not do it for me like 99% of the time. I'll need other stimulation. I'll bring in a small bullet to help me along. So far, Al is ok with that.