TMI Tuesday

TMI Tuesday #154


1. What do you feel is the difference between sexy and erotic?
I think you can feel sexy in anything. I feel sexy in a pair of boycut undies and a tank top. I feel sexy when I get out of the shower. I feel sexy when I'm getting ready to go out and I'm just in a bra and panties or wearing a bra and jeans.

Sexy is a state of mind. You have to feel sexy. I feel sexy in some outfits I wear to work. I specifically have a pencil skirt that I wear with a body clinging white shirt. I call it my "dirty secretary" outfit.

Now Erotic... I think of erotic as something that gets me off. Be it porn, my vibrator or having sex with someone that I care about. Erotic can also be something "naughty" that I am not supposed to know about, but I do and I like it. It gets me wet.

2. Do you believe there is one right person (i.e. soul mate) for you out there in the world, or that there can be many different potential mates that you could live blissfully with?

100% most def the second part of that!!! I was with someone since I was 17. We were together almost 14 years. We were married in 2005 and bought a house together. I thought, if anyone was going to make it, we would and we didn't make it. We Failed. I think that society places in our young girlish minds, that we will find a Prince Charming and live happily ever after. It NEVER works that way.

I believe that you will have several "soul mates." They don't necessarily have to be with a lova. I feel that my best friend, is one of my soul mates. She just gets me and it's great.


3. Do you need to hear "I love you" or similar words on a regular basis from your partner?

Absolutely not. I sort of feel if you say it all the time, that it doesn't mean as much. Actions speak way louder then words. I would rather my lover bring me home something that he just happened to see in the grocery store that I'd love. Take Slim Jims for instance. I LOVE THEM. yes, I know what they are made of. Like if my bf or whomever would stop and get me a Slim Jim, I'd be excited and I would know that he loved me w/o having to say it.

I am a rather secure person and I do not need to be constantly reassured that my man loves me. I mean, hell, how could you not love me?


4. What feeling do you have the most difficulty expressing?
Hmmm.. that's a tough one. I do have a very hard time asking for help. I don't really know why. I guess I have just been let down by so many people. In little ways too. Like asking someone for a ride when my car is in the shop and they tell me, the day of, that they can't do it. So I have naturally just depended upon myself to do things.

I think, my hardest feeling to express would be anger or that i am upset with someone. I was raised to hold my tongue and it's really hard for me to express, if I am not comfortable with you, that you did something and it's not right.


5. What is worse - physical, mental or cyber cheating?
Wow.. this is a good one. Mental is the least of those 3 options. I guess it depends on how far the cyber cheating would go. I would def say that there isn't a "worse" in cyber and physical cheating. They are both a break in trust and I would have major issues recovering from either.

Bonus (as in optional): The Kinsey scale attempts to describe a person's sexual history or episodes of their sexual activity at a given time. It uses a scale from 0, meaning exclusively heterosexual, to 6, meaning exclusively homosexual. Where are you - TODAY - on the scale?



Lol.. I think women are amazing and beautiful. They are sexy and smart and I'm sure, they are good tasting. They are just not my thing. I prefer men and dick all the way. So, I am #1 on this scale.