Relationship Status?

I was at my friend's Halloween party on Saturday with Al Gore. We watched the Penn State game (which they did win and ti was a great game) and there was this man there that I will called Mr. Steelers. Apparently he works with my soon to be ex husband. They must both be part of the same guard unit. So, Mr. Steelers pulled Al gore aside and was asking him if I was his girlfriend and apparently Al did say yes.

However, he only lists me as his friend to anyone else. Like to a perfect stranger I can be his girlfriend. To anyone else, I am a friend. Honestly though, I am guilty of the same crime. I don't know what to call him so I just call him my friend.

I guess we are dating? I don't really know. I know that I feel that I do come second to work, but srsly, the man is 26. He is very intelligent and amazingly brilliant and this lovely mix of nerdiness and geekiness matched with this sexiness and a great sexual appetite that matches mine.

I love hanging out with him, but are either of us ready to say "yes this is my boyfriend/girlfriend?" He is talking to his ex girlfriend and it's good for him. I think that they are able to communicate w/o anger. Or at least I hope that's how it is going. I don't want her fucking him up again. I may srsly have to fuck that bitch up if she does anything to him again.

Who cares about a relationship status. Who cares? I mean i don't care but apparently people really do care. He is my friend that I sleep with, that I have this amazing relationship with, that I enjoy doing things with and who the fuck cares. So far it's been awesome and amazing and I guess when I get that "I need to know where this is going" bug then i will confront that when that happens.

-peace