TMI Tuesday #203

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THESE ARE MY QUESTIONS!!
So I'm guessing I should give really good answers.

1) If you were to only live until the age of 50, how would you live your life differently?
Well I guess I would travel. There is so many places that I want to see and so many cultures still left to explore that I would do that. I find myself saying, "I will get there.... someday." I'd make that someday happen.

2) Are you settling in your job/career?
I was. I hated my last job and that's why I was only there for about a month and then I just told them that I wasn't going to come back. It was dreadful. The first day I was there I got a badge and then I was just sat at a desk and no one showed me anything. No one talked to me. I didn't do anything. I was working in a hospital so I started to read the physicians book about where they all went to school and their specialties. It was awful.
I do think that there is a time when you do need to really prove yourself at your job so yes, you'll get shitty tasks to do, but there needs to be an end goal. I am finally happy at a job with great co-workers and great bosses. Finally... at 31.

3) Are you settling with your significant other?
Uggg... I think so. Currently I am, BUT (and it's a big but) it could be great if only he'd make some changes. He used to be a Jehovah's Witness, but his family converted when he was 10 so he was forced to change. He decided at 18 to leave that religion and his family behind. So now, he refuses to change. He says that if he doesn't see it as a problem, then he won't change.
For example. The way that he speaks to me and to everyone in general. It's the way in which he words his sentences and his tone of voice. It takes on an air of superiority. I also can't tell when he's joking or kidding around. His tone of voice doesn't change.
I really want him to work on it, but if he won't then I don't know what to do. I love him, but I won't stay if I feel that I am the one changing to benefit the relationship. Right now it's going well, but it could be better.
So.. to make a short story long... yes I am settling, but there is the potential for growth.
That's kinda sad though. To wait for someone to change b/c there is potential for him to be awesome. I just want a partner. I just want to feel that I have someone on my side. A partner. That's what I want.


4) How important is your family?
My family is so important to me. I am the youngest of three girls and I am the scrappy one. I will kick anyone's ass that messes with my sisters or my family. My mom used to tell us that "we were the best present that they gave us." Meaning, my sister's were the best present that my parent's gave us. I didn't agree back then, but now I do. I am very close to my whole family.

5) If you caught a neighbor peeping in at you while you were naked or having sex, would you close the blinds? (assuming you live in a city and can see into other buildings).
Ummm.. hell yeah. I'd be totally ok with it and even put on a bigger show for them.